Shoes, Purses & Wallets. Oh My!
/Today my goal was to go through my purses, wallets and shoes as the “sub category” in Category 1: Clothing. Tidying my shoes was a little tougher than I thought. As a mom of two, gone are the days of 5 inch heels and going out on the town with my girlfriends. Some of the shoes were really nice and some I had paid a pretty penny and wished I never did. But with my new tidying skills, if it didn’t spark joy, I thanked the item and parted ways. Even some of my handbags that I’ve had for decades (OMG...I can’t believe I said that) now no longer sparked joy.
How did I decide what to keep and what to let go? I held each piece in my hand and asked myself “Does it spark joy?” If I found myself on the fence, I asked myself a series of questions:
When was the last time I used it?
Am I keeping it because I spent a lot of money on it but it no longer served it’s purpose? Or still has original tags and never used?
Do I see myself using the piece in the future?
I was surprised to feel RELIEVED to let many of the pieces go because I didn’t feel obligated to hold onto something that I wasn’t using or made me feel happy when I saw it. It had fulfilled its purpose.
After figuring out which handbag, wallet or pair of shoes I wanted to keep, I was most excited to organize them. Using my Instax camera (basically a Polaroid), I was able to still use the dustbags or shoe boxes to keep them dust free, but now I CLEARLY knew every item I owned and all sparked joy :).
Take-Aways:
From Day 1: ALL my clothes are now either hung or folded in a drawer! I had at least TWO PLASTIC BINS of clothes to put away seasonal or as “keepsake”...but after “Konmari’ing” my closet, everything is out in the open or in a drawer. This fills my heart with so much joy I don’t have any “hidden” clothes that years later I go “Where did this come from?”
Only keep things that bring you joy. Discard the rest. I probably cleared HALF my purse/wallet collection (shocking I know) and about two-thirds of my shoe collection. I even found that I had DUPLICATE shoes because I had forgotten the original pair!
Donating things or reselling for a profit. I found that discarding my items fell into 3 categories: A. Donations B. resell myself or C. resell through a 3rd party. I will cover this in a future blog for those interested!
Total “Tidy Warrior” time: 3 hours